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Frequently asked questions
Therapy St Albans FAQs
The first time we meet is different from a regular therapy session — it's a space for us to get to know one another and see if we're the right fit. Here is how that 50-minute meeting usually unfolds.
1. Settling In Whether we meet in person at my St Albans office or online via Zoom/Google Meet, we start by simply arriving. It is completely normal to feel nervous or unsure of where to begin. My role is to provide a gentle, non-judgmental space where you don't have to "perform" or have all the answers ready.
2. The Working Agreement We spend around 10 minutes on the practicalities — reviewing confidentiality (what stays between us and the rare legal exceptions), how we will work together, session timings, and my 48-hour cancellation policy.
3. Sharing Your Story This is the core of the session. I'll invite you to talk about what has brought you to therapy now — whether that's recent triggers like a relationship breakdown or career stress, or longer-standing patterns. You are in the driver's seat: you only share what you feel comfortable sharing.
4. Exploring Your Goals We'll discuss what you hope to gain. Practical tools to manage anxiety? Untangling deeper roots from the past? Identifying this helps us measure your progress as we go.
5. Deciding the Next Step At the end, we check in. If it feels right, we can book a regular weekly slot. If I feel a different specialist might serve you better, I'll be honest and offer a referral. There is no obligation to commit until you are ready.
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